Our self-concept is shaped from our early childhood, developmental, and relational experiences. But what if your existence or sense of ‘self’ was traumatically, genetically, and environmentally marked from the antenatal developmental period in addition to generationally? Kimberley has spoken about her lived experiences as the product of a rape at the UNCC in Bangkok Thailand as well as other platforms, highlighting the transformative power that can come from sharing and embracing stories of adversity. Importantly, her story is one that is shared through her Mother’s strength and resilience.

Embarking on a journey to explore the impact precognitive trauma; trauma experienced before 18 months of age including during conception and birth, has had on her worldview, Kimberley draws from her knowledge of trauma, attachment, and neuroscience to narrate the healing, purpose, and meaning she has begun to discover including the questions she still has in relation to the human condition. Her story includes the turning point from early exposure to domestic violence, developmental delays, regressive and problematic behaviours that occurred during her primary and secondary schooling as well as the impact this had on her mental wellness, to becoming a global youth ambassador for Humanitarian Affairs Asia. 

As an adult, Kimberley received diagnoses of Autism Spectrum Disorder and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder which added another layer of shame and understanding in her lifelong journey. Importantly, Kimberley reflects on how her lived experiences have benefited and challenged her as a mental health practitioner who often works with complex developmental and relational trauma. 

Kimberley dedicates this presentation to the strong mothers, parents, caregivers, educators, and professionals who serve as the role models, mentors, and attachment figures for vulnerable children and young people. That one adult who believes in you as a child when you cannot believe in yourself truly makes a difference.